About the case of the deaf blind twins that had themselves put to death because they didn’t want to live with being both deaf and blind. They were deaf and going blind at the time they decided that life just isn’t good enough if you can’t hear and see (and you thought AUDISM was bad? What do you call it when the deaf think it’s so horrible not to be able to SEE that you should just DIE?):
I wanted to tell you why this was an evil thing these brothers did.
My husband has Ushers Syndrome and has been deaf since he was six and living with a deteriorating vision for most of his life. He still tells tales about ‘blind camp.’ That was when he could still actually see. Now, we have a blog that chronicles our life together, the adventures of the deaf-blind and we try to focus on the positive: https://withclosedcaptions.wordpress.com.
There is no cure for Ushers Syndrome. Sam is rapidly losing the little vision he has. He is having a lot of problems accepting the fact–despite everything we tell him–that he still has value. There is not a job he can do that is more valuable to us than working at home raising the kids, but he does other things for me, like help me edit my work and research, besides being my emotional recharge, my spiritual rock and my best friend. Society doesn’t value a stay at home dad very much, and obviously, from the above story, it doesn’t even really value a deaf-blind person.
This double suicide didn’t just affect these two brothers. No. This affected my husband. If the deaf people didn’t think they had a value if they went blind, how can anyone expect society to think they do?
Katherine Sebilius’ said “Some people live, some people die” as if there were no value to a life that didn’t fit in a box on a chart in some census file. This is exactly the mindset that these deaf brothers understood.
Every time my husband goes through a bout of depression, we struggle to show him how much he means to us. You know who we have to fight? That influence from the government, the media, and now these two deafblind brothers who think being deaf and blind is too much to bear. They even use the excuse that they don’t want to be a burden to their family. What did their family say? They waved goodbye and had a ‘rich conversation?’ Are you freaking kidding me??!!
F*** you for not fighting this tooth and nail so I and all of my friends who are deaf and might one day go blind didn’t have to fight it. Screw you for going down silently to that last sleep. I hope those deafblind brothers spend as much time in hell as we spend struggling to keep my husband uplifted and positive. (even though I don’t really believe in “hell”)
You think these sorts of decisions don’t affect other people? You think they only impact the disabled, or the chronically ill? Think again. It may cost me the best man I’ve ever known. Friends and family say these two brothers were good men. Take a look around you. Do you really think society can afford to lose a lot more good men?
As for me and my house… We will fight tooth and nail to continue to support and uplift the sanctity of each life, no matter the disability.